{"id":120238,"date":"2024-07-24T12:28:19","date_gmt":"2024-07-24T19:28:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:/wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238///wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238//www.yesmagazine.org/wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238//?post_type=article&p=120238"},"modified":"2025-02-20T18:08:13","modified_gmt":"2025-02-21T02:08:13","slug":"wedding-india-ambani-caste","status":"publish","type":"article","link":"https:/wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238///wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238//www.yesmagazine.org/wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238//social-justice/wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238//2024/wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238//07/wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238//24/wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238//wedding-india-ambani-caste","title":{"rendered":"Meet the Couples Upending India/wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238/u2019s Caste-Based Marriages"},"content":{"rendered":"/wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238/n

While the world/wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238/u2019s eyes are on Indian billionaire Mukesh Ambani/wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238/u2019s son/wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238/u2019s wedding, a section of Indian society is breaking age-old marriage traditions. On a pleasant sunny day in January 2024, around 200 people gathered to celebrate the wedding of Sunil and Sulochana in the tiny Indian village of Aam Gachchi. The village is located in the eastern state of Bihar on the Indo-Nepal border. Bihar is considered to be one of the most regressive states in terms of socioeconomic factors in the country, which is what made the nuptials even more remarkable. /wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238/n/wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238/n/wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238/n/wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238/n

It was a wedding like no other. At a time when Indian families go into debt trying to arrange a good match, Sunil and Sulochana/wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238/u2019s wedding was a simple yet radical one. It stood in stark contrast to the spectacle of the Ambani wedding./wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238/n/wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238/n/wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238/n/wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238/n

The mandap (wedding altar) had a small fire burning in the middle with a photo collage, not of Hindu gods, as is the tradition, but of Indian revolutionaries including Savitri Bai, Fatima Sheikh, Mahatma Gandhi, Bhagat Singh, B.R. Ambedkar, and a copy of the Indian Constitution. In between Sunil and Sulochana stood a female priest, Kamayani, who presided over the ceremony. /wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238/n/wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238/n/wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238/n/wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238/n

The couple walked around the fire seven times as is customary in a traditional Hindu wedding but they reformed it by reading their own vows to each other as opposed to the standard regressive verses that promote rigid gender roles for brides and grooms in modern India. Their vows stood on the fundamentals of gender equality, togetherness, respect and dignity. It was considered a revolutionary ceremony in the Indian context where weddings are usually performed in extremely patriarchal, casteist, and classist ways./wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238/n/wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238/n/wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238/n/wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238/n

/wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238/u201cWe were confident that we wanted to break away from the casteist structure of how a Hindu marriage is performed and do it in a way that reflects our ideology and the respect we have towards our great reformist leaders,/wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238/u201d says Sulochana. /wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238/u201cTraditional weddings in our villages have archaic gendered rituals, so we didn/wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238/u2019t want that. We/wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238/u2019ve educated ourselves and we work with children in villages to teach them about the struggles our revolutionaries have faced to bring about changes in our society,/wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238/u201d she adds. Those struggles, explains Sulochana, /wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238/u201chave helped us to rise from the perils of the caste system, educate ourselves and live in a free country. So when we started to discuss our wedding, we kept that in our minds./wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238/u201d/wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238/n/wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238/n/wp-json/wp/v2/article/120238/n

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